While academic success is important, nurturing your child’s spiritual well-being is equally vital. Actively participating in their spiritual journey can help your student navigate the challenges and successes of the upcoming school year. Here are five meaningful ways you can support your children spiritually.
1. Grow Spiritually Together
Joshua 24:15b – “…But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”
Encourage your child to establish a strong foundation of faith by growing spiritually alongside them. When children see you leading out and pursuing the Lord for your personal growth, they’ll see the importance of spiritual growth for themselves. Your student will be at home far more than in a church setting. Set aside regular times for family Bible study, devotions, and discussions about God’s Word. Be the spiritual leader your student needs.
2. Pray For and With Your Student
Philippians 4:6-7 – “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
Prayer is a powerful tool that connects us to God’s heart! Make it a habit to pray for your student’s academic success, personal growth, friendships, spiritual growth, and overall well-being. Additionally, pray together as a family, inviting God’s presence into your home and their school life. When your children see you pray, it gives them confidence and encouragement on the importance and power of prayer.
3. Highlight Character and Personality Traits
1 Samuel 16:7b – “The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”
Guide your student to value inner qualities over external appearances. Help them recognize and develop character traits such as kindness, integrity, and perseverance, which reflect Christ’s nature. Clothing trends come and go, but character remains.
4. Emphasize God’s Intentional Design
Psalm 139:13-14 – “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”
Remind your students that they are fearfully and wonderfully made by God. Students are struggling with comparison, anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts today more than ever. God has no error, including who He created your student to be! Encourage them to embrace their unique qualities, talents, and interests as part of God’s intentional design for their lives. It’s okay for guys to be uninterested in sports and being outdoors, just as it’s okay for girls to be uninterested in makeup or baking. Love and emphasize God’s perfect design for the gender God designed them to be, and see how God can use their unique qualities, talents, and interests for his glory!
5. Prioritize Godly Community
Hebrews 10:24-25 – “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”
Help your child understand the importance of surrounding themselves with a community of believers. When you prioritize godly community for yourself, your student will learn the benefits and importance of godly community for themselves. You don’t have to be a parent who looks back and regrets not making church a priority for your student—you can start right now. Being part of a local church, student ministry, or a Christian organization at school can provide spiritual encouragement, accountability, and a sense of belonging for your student.
As parents, nurturing the spiritual growth of your children is a vital aspect of their personal development. By committing to these five actions—growing spiritually together, praying fervently, focusing on inner qualities, embracing God’s intentional design, and prioritizing godly community—you can provide a strong foundation that will guide them not only for this school year but also for the rest of their life!