May 26, 2020
The book of Proverbs is a collection of short sayings in the Old Testament meant to instill wisdom in God’s people. As we read, it is important to remember that a proverb is a statement which is generally true in principle, not a universally true promise. Let’s dig into the Word together and allow the Lord to shape our hearts, our minds, and our lives in his wisdom over the next month!
Proverbs Chapter 9 is an interesting comparison between the Way of Wisdom (v.1-6) and the Way of Folly (v.13-18). It is interesting to read these two sets of verses and compare. But what’s perhaps most significant in this short chapter in Proverbs, are the verses in between, which speaks of instruction and reproach, as well as the ways we respond to them.
Verse 9 says “Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a righteous man, and he will increase in learning.”
Sometimes it’s hard to take constructive criticism. Our human nature, our sinful nature, tells us to take pride in things and feel that we have done our best. When someone offers counsel or instruction, we can often view it as criticism and get defensive. But the Bible says clearly that to listen to instruction is wise and being teachable is the way of the righteous!
The wise path is to seek to learn from criticism or instruction, however difficult it may be.
All of this starts with a fear of the Lord…a healthy fear, knowing that He is Almighty God and able to do all things. In verse 10, it says “the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight.”
Proverbs 9
The Way of Wisdom
9 Wisdom has built her house;
she has hewn her seven pillars.
2 She has slaughtered her beasts; she has mixed her wine;
she has also set her table.
3 She has sent out her young women to call
from the highest places in the town,
4 “Whoever is simple, let him turn in here!”
To him who lacks sense she says,
5 “Come, eat of my bread
and drink of the wine I have mixed.
6 Leave your simple ways, and live,
and walk in the way of insight.”
7 Whoever corrects a scoffer gets himself abuse,
and he who reproves a wicked man incurs injury.
8 Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you;
reprove a wise man, and he will love you.
9 Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser;
teach a righteous man, and he will increase in learning.
10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom,
and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight.
11 For by me your days will be multiplied,
and years will be added to your life.
12 If you are wise, you are wise for yourself;
if you scoff, you alone will bear it.
The Way of Folly
13 The woman Folly is loud;
she is seductive and knows nothing.
14 She sits at the door of her house;
she takes a seat on the highest places of the town,
15 calling to those who pass by,
who are going straight on their way,
16 “Whoever is simple, let him turn in here!”
And to him who lacks sense she says,
17 “Stolen water is sweet,
and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.”
18 But he does not know that the dead are there,
that her guests are in the depths of Sheol.
The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® (ESV®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers.
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. It’s where it all starts. Fear the Lord and humbly seek Him, and you will have knowledge and insight; and with that, the ability to see instruction as wise counsel, not just criticism.
Family Discussion Question:
- Why is it so hard for us to take loving counsel, instruction, or even rebuke? Why is it so important that we put aside our pride and have a humble attitude as we seek to learn wisdom?